How to Female Ejaculate: A Quick Look at the Mystery

Being a woman, I thought I knew everything there was to know about female sexuality. I mean, hey, I am woman. But I had always heard of this infamous female ejaculation, that was supposedly different than just having an orgasm. I heard stories from my male friends about women they had been with that had ejaculated.

And when I would ask them to describe it, I would get similar responses: “It squirts out. It’s very wet. It’s liquid. It’s clear in color. It almost looks cloudy. It’s very warm.” I still wasn’t convinced, I mean it sounded like my friends got peed on. So I was on a quest. What is this liquid and if it is female ejaculate, where does it come from and can I do it too? So I did some research and this is what I found.

Female ejaculation is an orgasm that not every woman is aware of and that, as a result, may bring about some very intense emotions. Those that can do it don’t know what to do with it or feel ashamed of it. Some of the women that I spoke to that could do it didn’t want to because once they did, the men became upset and felt that they were urinated on. And as I learned, this is just not true. In fact, if you do get involved with a woman that can, she is a special woman.

It is a very personal thing though. The way they do it and the amount of fluid they produce can be different. The amount can range from just a few drops to spewing like a man to, more severe, a shower of it.

So where does it come from?

There are several theories, but the one thing that seems to remain consistent is that female ejaculation is worked up in the spongy area around the female urethra, better known as the G-spot. It’s located at the upper part of the vagina, just behind the entrance at the back of the pubic bone. It does actually feel like a little sponge. When stimulated over a long period of time, this sponge fills up with fluid. Some women also told me that it kind of feels like they’re urinating, although they know it’s not coming from the same place. It does originate from the same general area, which is why they feel that way. But this is where the confusion comes in.

Women’s urethra, like men’s, supposedly closes up during sexual activity. There have been many studies. All are basically left with the a question mark and the reader draws their own conclusion. So instead of boring you with every little detail, I’ll give you the general wrap up of all the experiments.

So the similar chemicals that have been found in all experiments are a high level of glucose and an enzyme, prostatic acid phosphatase, which is characteristic of the prostatic component of semen (whatever that means) and two substances commonly found in urine, urea and creatinine, which were found at lower levels than in the subject’s urine. (So, okay, there is some urine substance in female ejaculate, from what they’re saying.)

Some have also come to the simple solution that in some women it is very similar to urine and in others it is similar to the fluid produced by the prostate in men. And still more think it may come from a gland located at the opening of the urethra in the vulva.

So, wow! I believe from all the research that I’ve done, is that it probably is a little bit of both: prostate type fluid and urine. But hey, sex is supposed to be fun and exciting. If your woman gets so damn excited that she pees on herself, you should take it as quite the compliment.

We will discuss it in a separate article, but I have also learned that g-spot stimulation is not the only way to make it happen. A lot of first timers will ejaculate from that type of stimulation, but it is not necessary in those women that can. Seymore Butts’ Guide to Female Ejaculation is a very detailed learning tool to try and make this happen. It’s not only educational, but really hot to watch too. I can’t recommend it enough!

A useful tip

It’s probably a good idea to line your bed with vinyl sheets or put towels under you, because you don’t know how much fluid may come out. The Fascinator Throe by Liberator is great, soaks up all the liquid and none of it gets on your furniture. And it’s rather pretty and doesn’t make any noise like the vinyl sheets.

So there you have it, it is basically still a mystery. Aren’t we women fascinating? Everyone wants to know about this stuff, even women that do it.

UPDATE: 11-2010

While I have not been able to ejaculate, hubby and I have a lady friend that we have sex with that does. So I can personally attest to the fact that it is absolutely possible for a woman to ejaculate. It’s not urine and it doesn’t have an odor either. I love experiencing new things! 🙂

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My name is Ann Andriani. Since 1999, I've helped millions of folks sort through their questions and curiosities about sex. I hope that you enjoy your stay with me and benefit from my thoughts and sex advice.