Masturbating Tips for Men

By Ann Andriani All Sex Guide

Most men masturbate or have masturbated at some time in their lives. All you need is the right mood, some xxx movies or magazines, a fantasy of something or someone you’d like to be with or a past event that really gets you hot. There are no rules to follow, but for those of you who wonder what can be done to pleasure yourself, here are some ideas. This article can also help out those women who are unsure of how to stimulate the penis, so read on and see how men would do it to themselves. These are some tried and true methods to get yourself or your man all worked up.

The penis can be very frightening to some, but it really is very fun to play with.

Stroking is the most popular way to stimulate the penis. Grab on with a or both hands and stroke up and down. You can use different types of pressure to find out what feels great. Some men like to be squeezed tight and others like it real soft. Some men like it fast and others like it slow and steady. You can stroke just the shaft or caress the head of the penis too. The head of the penis is very sensitive, so sometimes once a man gets close to climaxing or is climaxing the head of the penis is too sensitive to touch. 

Different textures and fabrics can bring about different sensations to the penis. You can use these different textures while stroking or you can rub up against them. A nice smooth satin, cotton or even velvet can feel quite pleasing.

You see it all the time in xxx movies and to be honest, I thought it was just a porn star thing, is the man slapping his penis up against something. This does actually bring pleasure. Slap it up against your pillow, stomach or even between your hands.

There are many toys out there for men to get some thrusting action from.

There are many different toys made by adult toy manufacturers that are specifically made to feel as close to the real deal as you can get. Molded vaginas, anuses and mouths made from latex, cyber skin, jelly rubber, and jelly silicone. Some of them even vibrate or have suction for added stimulation. They even have on the market now the upper torso: breasts, chin and mouth. It’s all one unit so you can thrust between the breasts and have the added bonus of a blow job. The unit is actually quite small for what it is. Our recommended stroking male toy is the Senso Lips and our recommended vagina toy is the Aimee Sweet Cyberskin Pussy.

If you really like suction, there are also toys out there that do just that. Most of these toys look like little machines, but hey, if it’s what you like then you want a penis pump. Penis pumps basically create a vacuum around the penis, pulling in blood to temporarily enlarge it. Although, do be careful with these and follow the instructions. Pumping too long can cause problems.

Stimulating the prostate or anus can be very pleasing.

You can do this with your fingers or a toy. And you can do it internally or externally. Just be sure that if you plan to do it internally, make sure that whatever you’re inserting has a flared base at one end, so it doesn’t get pulled in. Or you can just massage the area between your scrotum and anus. Putting a little pressure on this area or a very gentle vibrator to this area can be wonderfully added stimulation. Our recommended anal toy is the Club Jenna Lollipopper because it has a very comfortable fit.

Important things to keep in mind when masturbating:

Never insert your penis into anything you may not get it out of.

Although it’s fun to masturbate in the shower, soap is not a very good lubricant because it could get into your urethral track and cause pain and/or irritation.

Always use a good amount of lubrication, no matter what you’re doing to your penis. And since it’s just you, you can use whatever form you like, without worrying about destroying a condom or other latex barrier, in this case we recommend Elbow Grease . (Just be certain that you are masturbating with your hands only. If you plan to use a condom, use a toy or have intercourse with a woman, do not use this lube!) A penis rubbed raw can be extremely painful. Especially with any toys, most of these products need a lot of lubrication in order to get the best sensation from it.

These are just some of the many ways that men can satisfy themselves. There is no right or wrong way, combine some or all of these methods. Do what you like, just make sure that what you’re doing is safe. Remember masturbation is our birthright as a living breathing creature, so don’t be afraid or ashamed to do it.

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