Oral Sex Tips that will Drive your Woman Wild

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This is by far the ultimate way to win over your woman. There are so many men out there that are the lay of the century, yet they can’t eat pussy if their life depended upon it. So even if you think you’re a pro and have been doing it for years, check out this article, just to make sure you’re doing all you can to fulfill her deepest desires and drive her wild. If this is your first exposure to the subject, WELCOME! YOU’LL BE EVERY WOMAN’S DREAM MAN! I know total geeks who have women falling all over them because rumor has it that he can do some good pussy eating’. So let’s begin:

First of all, let’s define cunnilingus.

It’s the fine art of making love to your woman’s vagina with your mouth and tongue. It is the most wonderful thing you can do for her. It makes her feel loved, admired, sexy and it drives her wild, making her cum like crazy! (Making you a serious stud muffin!) There is nothing more exciting to a woman than to know that her partner finds her delicious. If you don’t want to indulge right away, but want to see the excitement you can bring her; finger fuck her a little then smell, lick and suck the juice off your finger and tell her how wonderful she tastes. This will ease both of you right into it, if she doesn’t hump your face first.

Not familiar with the lady parts?

The clit is a small knob of pink flesh located at the top juncture of a woman’s inner vaginal lips. This, boys, is the magic button. You can pleasure her to death vaginally and anally, but this is where it really happens.

Most women realize that men are concerned about the smell and taste. It can range from pleasant to sour to uric tasting. We women realize this and are just as concerned about it as men. One thing to take into account is if she hasn’t showered recently or has been very physically active, her taste and smell will be stronger. Some men like this and that’s fine; that’s great!

But if you are concerned, take a shower or bath together. A clean vagina is much easier and more enjoyable to eat. The smell or taste may also be on her mind, so a shower will not only alleviate your  concern, but will relax her as well, bringing both of you more pleasure. Besides, a nice hot shower or bath and all that soap lather and two horny naked people is always a fun way to start an encounter. A  variety of bath oils, soaps, gels and mists that just by smell alone, can get one in the mood. I highly recommend it!

If the smell is not as pleasant as you would like it to be, don’t complain about it. And don’t bitch about it right then and there. This is a very vulnerable moment for a woman, an attack like that can be very damaging. “Wet” also makes a Flavored Lube. It comes in 8 delicious fruity flavors and adds that all important lubrication that is always appreciated when touching such a sensitive area. Not only will your woman taste yummy, but she’ll smell yummy as well!

The most important piece of advice that I can give you is DO NOT, UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES, GO RIGHT FOR THE CLIT! This area is very sensitive. Any immediate, direct stimulation there may only hurt, not excite. Although, do keep in mind that what is unacceptably rough in the beginning, may be fine once she’s very excited.

The important thing is to go slow and ask questions.

Don’t be afraid of outright asking. Just like penises, every vagina and vaginal area is a little different. Some women are a little more sensitive than others and some clits stick out more than others. Either way, the more you show how important this is for you to do right, the more she’ll want to help. Let her guide your hands and mouth with her own hand. If she starts really rubbing and grinding against your mouth, DON’T STOP OR TRY ANYTHING DIFFERENT, JUST CONTINUE WHAT YOU’RE DOING!

The key to making her cum is by using repeated, rhythmic stroking of her clitoris with your tongue. This can be accomplished by rapid, repeated vertical licks with a firm pointed tongue. Or, you can plant your flat tongue firmly against her clit and vigorously shake your head back and forth.

And why not add some extra pleasure while you’re tongue fucking her with a vibrator. You can get any size, color and texture vibrator in the world. These are a woman’s best friend. Oh there is nothing like getting tongue fucked and having your clit pleasured with a vibrator because although the man always tries to flick it or rub it with his fingers, there is nothing as fast and rhythmic as a vibrator. Our favorite vibes to incorporate with oral pleasuring is the Pocket Rocket (allsexreviews.com) and the Nea Mini (allsexreviews.com). They’re both rather small, so logistically, they won’t get in the way, but they pack a lot of punch!

Popular Positions

For all you newbies, some popular positions are her lying on her back or sitting at the edge of the bed with you kneeling between her legs. (This position works out best if she’s on a bed or chair and you’re kneeling on the floor.) You can sit down and she can straddle your face. (You’ll get real wet with this one!) If she likes it on all fours, you can come at her from behind or underneath, whichever is easier for you. And the ever popular, “69″, which makes it enjoyable for everybody.

There is just a ton of information on this topic, this is just the tip of the iceberg. And although, I am a woman and know how I like it best, nothing beats the pros. I recommend Tristan Taormino’s Ultimate Guide to Oral Sex 1: Cunnilingus DVD (IntimateSource.com). She not only tells you the secrets and tips on how to eat pussy, but has various couples demonstrating different techniques. By the time your done with this video, you’ll be the talk of the town, by all the ladies of course and the envy of all the men!

And once you get the hang of eating pussy, you’ll want to check out “The Advanced Guide to Oral Sex with Nina Hartley DVD” ($1.95 streaming rental).( This is where you’ll really learn how to drive your chick wild! And the best thing is they are both instructional VIDEOS. My explaining things here may help, but there is nothing like actually seeing it being done in detail and explained by a woman. And as you’ll see her videos are not only educational but quite exciting to watch as well, not only for you, but for your woman as well.

Want something a little less extreme than a video?

Well, Sadie Allison has written a wonderful little guide to pleasuring women, called “Tickle Your Fancy(allsexreviews.com). It’s written for women to learn how to pleasure themselves, but the tips and techniques in this little guide are priceless for a man who wants to give his woman great pleasure.

There are so many men out there that think they have the talent, but really ask yourself if you know everything there is to know about it. Taking a crash course may be the best thing you could do for yourself and your woman. Wouldn’t you like to know that your woman is bragging about the sexual experience she had with you last night? Knowing that all her friends want to experience your pleasure? It’s that powerful boys, if you’re going to do it, do it right!

Enjoy your woman. And let her know you enjoy her. Send her to the ecstasy she deserves and enjoy knowing that you have a real talent that not many men have. Cunnilingus is a delicate skill, requiring patience, practice and dedication to get it right, but any woman you learn to do it right for will appreciate you all the more for it.

Helpful External Resources:

  • If you want to learn even more tips, I highly recommend any book written by Violet Blue. She gives you straight up, no bullshit information and her Ultimate Guide to Cunnilingus Book (Powells.com) is no different.
  • A great little book on sex toys and how to incorporate them into partner sex. A great read that gets right to the point. Toy Gasms Book by Sadie Allison (IntimateSource.com)
Ann Andriani
My name is Ann Andriani. Since 1999, I've helped millions of folks sort through their questions and curiosities about sex. I hope that you enjoy your stay with me and benefit from my thoughts and sex advice.

2 Comments

  1. Glen

    September 19, 2013 at 6:11 pm

    Great advice.

  2. m anthony

    March 3, 2014 at 2:48 pm

    holy cow! keep up the good work!

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